Secret Spirits

Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Family Dynamics

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Understanding the Myths of Addiction and Recovery

Let's address the #1 Myth of the unwitting wife..."If they just get sober. Go to treatment. All my problems would be solved."
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What YOU Need to Do While Your Partner is in Treatment.

The scariest thing in my world at any given moment is the word, “relapse”. Can you relate? Oh man, to feel the pain, trauma, and heartbreak of a relapse is something very very unique to this community. Lean on your sisters here; we know your fears, your pain, and your inner turmoil, truly.
So let’s talk about what YOU need to do while your loved one is in treatment. Congratulations, you bought yourself 30 days (give or take) of dedicated time to your own healing and growth. Addiction is a FAMILY DISEASE. That means that by living in the same house as an addict or alcoholic, you are also “sick”.
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Foundational Content

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Understanding Covert Abuse in Emotional Relationships

The most cunning type of emotional and psychological abuse.  It is difficult to identify due to its secretive nature. 
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Defining Types of Abuse

Today, we’ll focus on defining different types of abuse and how they present in the home with an addict or alcoholic as the primary “abuser”.
It’s important to reinforce the truth here: NO TYPE OF ABUSE is EVER acceptable. If you suspect that you are the victim of abuse, or someone you know is the victim of abuse, you MUST SEEK HELP NOW.
Help is available, here are some resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Survivors & Victims – Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence
Resources for Survivors - DOJ
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Deeper Dive into "The Enabler(s)"

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Giving Space to the Emotional Weight of the Family Roles

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Identify "The Roles of the Family Members"

Have you subconsciously stepped into a role to achieve balance in the home with an addict? Find out today. 
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Strategy: Detaching Yourself from the Outcomes

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